Find Assisted Living for Adults Who Have a Mental Illness: A How-To Guide

These communities offer behavioral health treatments, which typically consist of counseling coupled with medication. People who have a mental illness as well as those with substance abuse disorders can receive psychotherapy to help them change their behaviors and thoughts as well as how they interpret various situations.^[01] Routines are also important, as residents are taught life skills that support their health and well-being. These group homes offer many of the same amenities and services as a larger assisted living community, including medication management, meals, transportation, and activities and events.

Typical housing options include group homes, care homes, supportive housing, partially supervised group housing, and supervised group housing, according to the National Association of Mental Illness (NAMI).^[02] If your loved one requires full-time supervision, you may want to consider a group home, a care home, or an assisted living community.

What are the requirements for someone to live in behavioral assisted living?

While the requirements will vary from one community to the next, behavioral health assisted living communities typically have an 18+ age requirement, and residents are usually around the same age demographic. For example, assisted living communities that cater to the needs of seniors usually have higher age minimums. However, some memory care communities will have a more flexible age requirement to accommodate individuals with early onset dementia.

To enter a behavioral health assisted living facility, your loved one may need a diagnosis from a doctor regarding their mental illness. Those using state-level resources such as Medicare, Medicaid, or VA benefits to pay for care may also need to work with a social worker to qualify for one of these communities. If your loved one isn’t currently working with a social worker, a doctor may refer you to one. Online tools, such as the National Association of Social Workers, can also help you find behavioral health therapists who are licensed social workers. If you’re planning on using a private payment option, you may not need to work with a social worker but may still need a diagnosis or referral from a doctor.

For practical purposes, and to help ensure your loved one receives the best care, you should fully disclose to the potential community any diagnoses your loved one has. This could be especially important if:

• Your loved one takes medication for their condition.
• Your loved one needs to be matched with a therapist or counselor.
• Your loved one acts out physically as a result of their condition.

Is assisted living the right fit?

Individuals living with the following types of mental health conditions could likely benefit from a supportive assisted living environment:

• Anxiety disorders or phobias
• Manic-depressive or bipolar disorder
• Eating disorders
• Depression
• Suicidal ideation
• Medication or substance abuse disorder
• Post-traumatic stress disorder
• Schizophrenia or early onset dementia

Here are a few examples of how people with the following mental health conditions can benefit from an assisted living community:

• Someone with an eating disorder may benefit from social and staff support during meals and will have access to healthy food options.
• Someone with bipolar disorder may feel more secure with a predictable routine.
• Adults with schizophrenia can gain comfort from structure, boundaries, and support from a caring staff.

If your loved one has received a mental health diagnosis, you’re likely aware of the specialized care they require. Each assisted living community is different in the level of care they provide, so you’ll need to be upfront about what your loved one needs to stay at their best. When communities aren’t equipped to offer everything a resident who has a severe mental illness needs, it can result in the following difficult situations:

• Stressed staff who are unequipped to care for someone with dangerous behaviors
• Poorer care for all residents as staff becomes stretched thin
• Dangerous situations for other residents, staff members, and the individual living with a mental illness

The best outcome would be a community with staff trained in caring for people with severe mental illness.^[03]

Why is assisted living a good option for someone with mental health concerns?

Many of the services and amenities offered by assisted living communities can benefit adults living with mental health concerns. For example, if your loved one struggles to maintain a healthy daily schedule, they’ll benefit from the following services at an assisted living community:

• Regularly provided nutritional meals
• Scheduled activities for physical and mental stimulation
• Housekeeping and laundry services
• Planned social events
• Around-the-clock staff
• Help with activities of daily living, like bathing and dressing

Each community varies in the level of care it provides, however, most offer medication management, a key component to the well-being of many people living with a mental illness. You’ll have peace of mind knowing that your loved one is receiving their medications on time and at the proper dose. Taking medications regularly can greatly affect the medicine’s effectiveness. Missing doses of an antidepressant, for example, can cause symptoms of withdrawal or even worsen the depressive symptoms.^[04]

Many assisted living communities also have medical professionals on-site, including certified nursing assistants (CNAs), registered nurses, and sometimes visiting doctors. If your loved one needs to see a therapist, behavioral health communities often provide on-site therapies or transportation to off-site appointments. Many behavioral health caregivers even help with scheduling appointments.

The top mental health concerns for adults over 60 are depression and anxiety.^[05] If your senior loved one is experiencing either of these, then they may benefit from a supportive assisted living community. Several amenities and activities at assisted living facilities can help relieve symptoms of anxiety and depression:

• Regular social gatherings offer something to look forward to, help establish feelings of connection, and give residents plenty of time to plan ahead.
• Meals offer a social environment and encourage residents who may have a reduced appetite to try to eat regularly.
• Exercise classes offer a social component as well as health benefits. The endorphins released during exercise help with symptoms of depression and anxiety, too.^[06]
• Volunteer programs and intergenerational activities give residents a chance to give back and increase their sense of purpose.

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A disability, like Down syndrome, differs from a mental health condition such as schizophrenia, anxiety, or bipolar disorder. However, housing options for adults with a developmental or intellectual disability take place in a similar environment to those for adults with mental illness. The home will usually specialize in either one or the other, though overlap in memory care communities may happen. Generally, assisted living for adults living with a mental illness tends to focus on medication management, whereas assisted living for adults who are mentally disabled focuses on supporting abilities.

Although there is a clear distinction between a mental disability and a mental illness, sometimes group homes or specialized assisted living facilities care for both groups of adults. In these cases, caregivers provide individualized, person-centered care all within the shared home-like environment.

If you’re looking for a home for a family member who has a mental illness or disability, state-level resources may guide your decision at first. The Administration for Community Living, which receives federal funding, also provides resources to help disabled adults find housing that integrates them into a larger community.^[07]

When state-level resources are impacted, resulting in limited spaces in a state-run group home or the inability to connect with a social worker, families may decide to go the private route. Or, your loved one’s mental illness diagnosis may not qualify them for state-level resources. In these cases, A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors may be able to help your family find a local care home that caters to adults living with a mental illness or disability.

It’s important to note that assisted living communities specializing in adults with a mental illness or disability can be hard to find. Many times they have a long waiting list. If you think your loved one may need this kind of care, it’s best to look in advance. You may want to begin your search as much as a year in advance of a move.

Cost and payment options

The median cost of assisted living across the United States is $4,995 per month, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data.^[08] Many assisted living communities structure their fees based on the amount of care that a resident needs, with several pricing tiers available. If your loved one can accomplish several activities of daily living (ADLs) independently, then they may pay less than a resident needing more assistance.

Additionally, the following resources may also help you to pay for long-term care in an assisted living community:

• Long-term care insurance or life insurance policies
• Medicare Part B, which covers some mental health medical needs ^[09]
• Grants through the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administrations (SAMHSA)
• Affordable housing resources through a NAMI affiliate office

It’s crucial to find the right community for your loved one, especially if mental health is a concern. Thankfully, preparing and utilizing resources can help with this decision:

• Assess your loved one’s needs. If your loved one receives treatment regularly, their therapist or doctor may have a good idea of their care needs. Such specialists can also make sure your loved one is well-prepared and moving at the right time.
• Educate yourself. Learn about assisted living and your loved one’s feelings about moving into a community. You can also get tips from our guide on what to do when a parent is refusing to move to assisted living.
• Tour communities and ask questions. Speak to several members of a prospective community’s staff and ask as many detailed questions as you need to.
• Reach out to a Senior Living Advisor. Even if you’re looking for assisted living for an adult with mental health concerns or a disability, A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors have a wealth of knowledge about which communities in your area may be able to accommodate them.

Assisted living agreements

In a best-case scenario, you’ll find a community that fits your loved one’s needs, but it’s important to be aware of the community’s rules. Certain behaviors may result in the community asking your loved one to leave, like the following:

• Violent behavior. Endangering themselves or another person likely means your loved one needs a higher level of care and supervision than an assisted living community can provide.
• Exit-seeking behavior. If your loved one does not want to move to assisted living and tries to leave, the community may refuse them. In this case, a community with a higher level of security may be a better fit.

Once you’ve chosen a community, set your loved one up for success. It’s best to move someone while their mental illness is well-managed to reduce the chance of relocation stress syndrome. Maintaining a routine helps someone with mental illness stay grounded, so avoid making too many abrupt changes at once. If at all possible, work with your loved one’s community to discuss how you can help during any transitions to their routine.

You should also work with the community’s director to create a crisis plan.^[10] People with mental illness do have lapses, and when that happens, it’s important to know that your loved one’s community has a plan in place to help. Choosing things like a contact person and a preferred hospital will make a tough situation much easier to handle later, and will set your loved one up for success.

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