How Much Does Memory Care Cost? A Complete State-by-State Guide

Depending on the state, the median cost of memory care ranges from about $4,000 to over $11,000 per month, according to A Place for Mom’s 2025 report on the cost of long-term care.^[01] Location greatly affects price because the cost of living varies considerably throughout the country.

Seniors and their caregivers often begin their search for memory care costs by asking “What’s the average monthly cost for memory care?” However, understanding the median cost of memory care is more meaningful. This is because the average cost is affected by concentrations of extremely high or low prices in certain areas. The median cost is simply the middle of a range of numbers.

Location affects both the median and average costs of memory care facilities. A community located in a large metropolitan area, near a desirable destination, or in an area with a higher cost of living is often more expensive.

Take a look at the median monthly cost of memory care in each state below.

The costs above are taken from an analysis of 10,596 residents who moved into a memory care community within A Place for Mom’s network in 2024. They’re based on actual monthly costs paid by families.

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The most and least expensive states for memory care

Memory care costs vary significantly across the U.S. due to factors such as availability and differences in the cost of living. The most expensive state for memory care is Vermont, while the least expensive state is South Dakota.^[01]

See the 10 most expensive and 10 least expensive states for memory care  in the graphics below.

While features and amenities vary, the base rate for memory care typically includes:

• Housing
• Three nutritious meals a day, plus snacks
• 24-hour care and supervision with a low patient-to-caregiver ratio
• Safety protocols, including gated entrances, video surveillance, and systems to monitor residents for wandering
• Emergency response systems (for medical emergencies)
• Housekeeping and landscaping services (to reduce resident stress and responsibility)
• Assistance with bathing, dressing, and other activities of daily living
• Medication management
• Transportation to medical appointments
• Memory-enhancing therapies and social activities

Are memory care fees all-inclusive?

Yes, most communities that provide only memory care charge an all-inclusive fee. Residents and their families pay one monthly fee for all available services and amenities. Because dementia can be unpredictable, these communities typically allow residents to receive more specialized services as care needs increase without charging more in monthly fees. However, in some communities, a few advanced care services or amenities may cost extra.

Memory care is sometimes offered in specialized areas of assisted living communities. This enables residents to retain as much independence as possible while aging in place. Within A Place for Mom’s nationwide memory care network, less than 15% of communities provide memory care only.^[02] Many of our partner communities also provide other types of care on the same campus, such as independent living and assisted living.

When memory care is provided within communities that offer multiple types of care, it’s common for residents to be charged more as they age and their care needs increase.

In such arrangements, the community will charge a base rate for standard amenities and services. Residents will then undergo a care assessment upon admission to determine what other services are needed. The community will perform additional assessments at regular intervals to identify changing needs and ensure the resident’s care plan meets them. The base rate plus the cost of the add-on services, as determined by the assessment, determines the total cost. For example, common add-on services include:

• Diabetic injections
• Incontinence care
• On-site salon services (haircuts, manicures, and other spa treatments)
• Pet fees
• Internet or cable service
• Special outings

Read more: Assisted Living vs. Memory Care: 5 Key Differences

Tips to save on memory care costs

Touring multiple communities, asking the right questions, and ensuring your loved one lives in the most appropriate area of a community that offers multiple kinds of care can help cut down on costs. That is, paying one fee to live in the memory care unit of a community may be more cost-effective than paying for the same services as add-ons in the assisted living area.

Mark Young recently moved his mom from assisted living into memory care within the same community. He says the transition ended up saving them money. His mom was receiving level 5 care (the highest level) in the assisted living area, resulting in a higher cost. However, in the memory care part of the community, his mom’s care needs were only considered a level 3 (an intermediate level). This move helped Young’s family save almost $1,000 per month while ensuring his mom receives the specialized care she needs.

Public programs, such as veterans benefits and Medicaid, can also help to lower the out-of-pocket cost of memory care. During his search for his mom’s care, Young learned that many residents use savings and pensions from their working days to fund memory care. Because those funds may be limited for some, he recommends that anyone searching for memory care ask whether communities accept Medicaid. He cautions that you never know when your loved one may run low on private funds and need it.

According to A Place for Mom’s cost of care data, the nationwide median cost of memory care is about 25% more than assisted living and twice the median cost of independent living.^[01] Compare the median cost of memory care with other types of care below.

• Home care: $30 per hour
• Independent living: $3,145 per month
• Assisted living: $5,190 per month
• Memory care: $6,450 per month
• Nursing home: $8,669-$9,733 per month^[03]

Why is memory care more expensive than other types of care?

In general, memory care costs more than independent living or assisted living because:

• Staff have specialized training. Dementia care requires specific skills and ongoing memory caregiver training, says Niki Gewirtz, a Senior New Hire Support Specialist at A Place for Mom. Gewirtz has been helping families find the right long-term care setting for more than 20 years.
  “Staff in memory care communities know how to meet residents where they are and provide exactly what they need. From helping a resident take a shower to helping them feel successful in whatever they do, memory care staff practice person-centered care,” says Gewirtz.
  Memory caregivers are also trained in redirection techniques and specific communication methods to help manage common dementia behaviors, such as confusion, anxiety, and aggression.
• Resident-to-staff ratios are low. Memory care communities have lower ratios, says Gewirtz, because people who have dementia often require more attention and support — and more frequently.
  “Staff in memory care communities have to pay close attention and become very familiar with what each resident needs. That costs more,” explains Gewirtz.
  As dementia progresses, people tend to need more help with feeding themselves, and incontinence is more common.
  “More staff are needed in dining rooms and housekeeping,” Gewirtz says.
• Safety offers peace of mind. Memory care communities offer a safe and secure environment to help prevent wandering and unwanted visitors. Advanced security systems, locks, unique building layouts, and special design features that reduce confusion and support wayfinding cost more to build.
• Programming is tailored.Memory care activity programs include unique social events and therapies that are highly personalized to accommodate the unique needs of seniors who have dementia. Activity schedules are usually designed to help residents eat, sleep, and exercise better, and they accommodate residents’ capabilities, according to Maureen Bradley, a former executive director of a memory care community, who now works at A Place for Mom.

Expert advice for affordable memory care

One of A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors, Lynn Moore, recommends that families ask the following questions so they can clearly understand a community’s costs and avoid surprises later on:

1. What’s the price? While the base rate mentioned above will likely apply, specific care charges can change month to month depending on factors like time of year, vacancy, and staff availability.
2. What’s included? What’s not? Many communities charge an all-inclusive monthly fee, but some communities set different prices based on care needs. Be sure to clarify the care and services included in the price.
3. How much do the various floor plans cost? Most memory care communities have studio or shared room options. Some may offer one- and two-bedroom units for a higher price.
4. Does the price increase annually? Memory care prices typically increase 3% to 8% each year. Ask prospective communities about previous rate increases and their policies for communicating these changes to residents.
5. Is there a community entry fee or deposit? Many communities charge a one-time community fee. The national median memory care community fee is $3,000, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data.^[02] This fee covers the extra services and one-on-one time needed to help a new resident adjust to the community.
6. Are there any move-in incentives? Many communities offer discounts, such as:
   • End-of-year rates. Deals are common around the holidays, when fewer people want to move.
   • Rate lock-ins. Some communities may offer to freeze their rate — called a rate lock — for two years or more.
   • Waived community entry fee. This initial payment may be eliminated as an incentive.
7. What’s the maximum amount of care offered? Your loved one’s care needs will be evaluated as part of the move-in process. However, care needs may change over time. Knowing the maximum price and care options available can help your family plan accordingly.
8. How often are care plans reviewed? If your loved one goes to the hospital, or if their health changes, they may need different services and treatments. A plan outlining required care is important to your relative’s health, and it can affect the total cost.
9. What happens if our family can no longer pay? Is there a grace period if unforeseen financial difficulties arise? Does the community provide any resources?
   “In most cases, the family and community will monitor financial resources together,” Moore explains. “If the family is spending down during the look-back period, additional options may be presented. When funds are exhausted, the loved one may need to be relocated to a community that accepts public assistance, like Medicaid.”
10. Are there activities and amenities included in the cost? Some communities may offer additional specialized activities in addition to those regularly scheduled on their events calendar. Your family may have to pay extra for services such as golf outings, aqua therapy, or more extensive crafts.
11. If your loved one chooses a nonprofit community, is there a foundation that can help if their funds run out? Sometimes, nonprofit communities partner with organizations or foundations that can help long-term residents cover their care costs. Check with a prospective community to see what options may be available.
12. Will we need to purchase any specialty items? Ask if there are any items related to your loved one’s care that you’ll need to pay extra for.
    “Many communities still require you to pay for personal items like incontinence supplies and personal hygiene items,” Moore notes.

Even if you live in a state where memory care is more expensive, low-cost options are available. Reach out to one of A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors to discuss your family’s unique needs and budget. They can connect you with memory care options and help schedule tours with local communities — all at no cost to you.